Well, C and I may be unable to choose a name for our child, but we sure know how to kill them. As I’ve mentioned before, we have chosen a name if LA turns out to be a girl, but since we’re about 90% sure that this munchkin is a boy, it would be nice if we could agree on a boy’s name too lest he be relegated to “Baby A” in the nursery at the hospital.
Names that we’ve considered (and shot down): Adrian, Aiden, Braden and Evan – these were my choices, rejected for not being “manly enough” per C’s requirements. We’ve also discarded David, Daniel, Alejandro and Javier – those were some of C’s choices, and while I like David and Daniel, I do not like Dave, Davey, Danny, Dan or Dan-o which no matter how hard you try, at some point will enter the picture. It was also important to me that our son not have a name that would be too ethnic given that we already have a Latino surname, as that brings with it it’s own set of concerns.
Soooo…. as of now, we have a menagerie of names that have been banished to the baby name graveyard, and one possibility that we agree on. Though, it should be noted we’ve agreed on a few of the above names at some point in time only to have one or both of us change our mind, so no promises. :::::Drumroll please:::::
Christian Thomas Acosta. Any thoughts? Please note; it’s for your own safety that I warn you that I nearly bit C’s cousin’s head off this past weekend when she tried to say that Christian could be a girl’s name too, as gender neutral names were the #1 absolute guaranteed-to-be-vetoed category. She had C going for a minute, and I really thought we’d be back to the drawing board after 8 long months. So far so good though.