The Little Things

In honor of Valentines Day, I have to share these thoughts that I just read on one of my favorite blogs:

“it’s the littlest things in life that usually matter the most. in your life, in my life…the small things matter. it’s ironic that we focus on the big things and miss out on the beautiful small things right around us. sometimes we focus on success, influence, 10 year planning, etc… and we miss out on what really matters right in front of us.

the little things in a marriage count. not diamond rings, big houses, or expensive trips….but embraces, loving kisses, time, sitting on the couch together under a blanket, encouragement and support. the little things in parenting count. not new toys and more gadgets…but affection, companionship, and boosterism.

the little things in friendships count. everyone knows you can’t buy friends, at least not real ones. and if you could buy real ones…wouldn’t they stop being real the moment you purchased them? in the end, it’s the day-to-day little things that make friendships strong, not money or stature. seemingly little things like inside jokes, remembering important things, having in mind the others best interest, loyalty…these things matter.

little things in our faith matter. most of us want to know God and change the world, and we will fight to the end to been seen as the godlier and holier. yet, in our thrust towards a false sense of perfection, we miss all the small things that make our faith tangible and legitimate.”


I’m so glad I read that today… I really needed that perspective. If you want to read more click here. I omitted just one or two lines that pertained to the author’s children, but the message is so worth hearing.