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Separation Anxiety

In general, L.A. is a pretty relaxed, easy going little dude and I thought we’d totally lucked out and sailed through without hitting the separation anxiety phase.  Wrong.  So, so wrong.  In the past week or so, his mom clinginess has increased and I attributed it to the molars that have been working their way in and making our lives miserable.  We’re now at the level of complete emotional breakdown if I walk out of his line of sight.  I’m talking tears, choking-can’t catch your breath-sobbing if I dare to use the restroom or try to retrieve something from another room. 

I’d be lying if I didn’t acknowledge the fact that I typically love his attachment to me.  There’s something so sweet about those big eyes that are always searching for me, for reassurance.  This, however – is a little overboard.  Any been there-done that-moms want to give me some insight as to how long this phase might last?

In other family news, both C and L.A. woke up this morning with coughs and scratchy throats.  Awesome.  All the wives out there, go ahead and give a sympathetic nod of the head… you know which one of my boys will need more attention this weekend.  ;)   I love you C!

January 2, 2009 - 2:58 pm Duff - 2.5 years? I'm kidding, sort of. I feel like most of these phases last 2 weeks-2 months. They seem to stop as soon as you get used to them in favor of some other surprise. ;)

January 2, 2009 - 5:09 pm neighbor - I have a scratchy throat too! For 4 days? Remember how I thought it was the no-humidifier thing? Idk anymore. So sorry about the miserable boys. Don't worry, E just screamed for me when I left to go to the mall yesterday and he was with dad...I mean complete breakdown as well, so they go through phases. Is he ok when you leave him for day care? Talk to you later!

January 5, 2009 - 1:32 pm Marcia - oh the clingy boy....I feel Jack & I could write the book on this. I am hoping for your sake that it does only last the 2wk/2mo that Duff mentioned, however, for my child? I couldn't even tell you. Luckily these boys are adorable and we do love all those Hercul-ian hugs so for now...we'll take it! Hope the boys feel better soon!

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