Today we celebrate his 34th birthday. I met him when he was 25. It was the wrong time in life for either one of us to meet someone important, but my heart skipped a beat the first time I caught his eye across that crowded space, and I’ll never forget the slight smile that turned up on his lips. After just a few weeks and much persistence (on C’s side), we were inseparable. Very soon after that, I fell completely in love with him. We had a long road of ups and downs, but six years later we were engaged. 11 months after that, we got married. 13 months after we were married, we welcomed L.A. into our lives, and now just 17 months after starting our family, we’re about to add to it. I often look around and marvel at how far we’ve come in these 9 years.
He’s the most incredible man I’ve ever met in my life. He’s kinder, smarter, more generous and funnier than anyone would ever guess in passing. He’s the one who observes a new situation quietly, but by the end of the evening is the life of the party and remembers everyone’s story. He knows all the answers on Jeopardy – even the ones I’m sure that he won’t. He’s a wonderful dancer, and twirling around with him I feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. He knows how to challenge me, push my buttons, and then in the next moment take my breath away. He has the most infectious smile you’ll ever see. He’s an amazing father, and the more time that goes on, the more I learn from him.

Tonight we’ll put many candles on his cake (I can say that, because my cake will always have less!) and sing in celebration. L.A. will squeal in delight, and C will act as though we’re making too big a fuss out of him, and my heart will swell at the fact that somehow I got lucky enough to deserve this guy.















